How to create a conscious relationship

When a couple is interested in working with me, they often are curious about the benefits or outcomes that they can expect and the general principles that guide my work. Below are a few of the benefits of working with me, followed by 12 principles or commitments that produce fulfilling, lasting love.

BENEFITS
• End repeating cycles of arguing and conflict
• Learn to communicate in ways that builds intimacy and understanding
• Turn a good relationship into an amazing one
• Use masculine/feminine dynamics to build trust and closeness
• Save a relationship that’s on the brink of ending
• Experience the best sex of your life

COACHING PRINCIPLES
1. Commit yourself to being close and to clearing up anything that stands in the way of your ability to do so.

2. Commit to your own complete development as an individual. Your relationship can never be healthier than you are.

3. Commit to complete emotional transparency, revealing rather than concealing, telling the microscopic truth.

4. Commit to acting from the awareness that you are 100% the source of your reality, that you are not a victim but the creator of your experience.

5. Commit to the full empowerment and creative expression of your partner. Each person should be expanding, evolving and growing more than they would be if they were not in the relationship.

6. Commit to communicating without blame, criticism, labels, name-calling and always/never statements.

7. Commit to communicating in ways that are unarguable using “I” statements that reveal your feelings, thoughts, body sensations and wants.

8. Commit to keeping your agreements impeccably.

9. Commit to understanding and mastering masculine and feminine dynamics.

10. Commit to balancing the need for closeness and separation.

11. Commit to having fun in your intimate relationship and lavishing your partner with verbal appreciation.

12. Commit to seeking professional help when you and/or your relationship feels stuck or unfulfilling.