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  1. 7 Reason Why the Law of Attraction Will Ruin Your Love Life

    7 Reason Why the Law of Attraction Will Ruin Your Love Life

    Most people believe that the Law of Attraction is the key to finding a life partner. However, with more than a decade of experience as a relationship coach, I believe the Law of Attraction will actually ruin your love life and sabotage your ability to experience deep emotional intimacy. I...

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  2. How the Scarcity Mindset is Keeping You Single (and what to do about it)

    How the Scarcity Mindset is Keeping You Single (and what to do about it)

    If heart disease is the #1 killer of humans, then the scarcity mindset is the #1 killer of single people. No other belief can cause as much damage as the scarcity mentality can. A scarcity mentality will squeeze the life out you and it will keep you single—and I rarely meet...

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  3. How to Overcome Trust Issues

    How to Overcome Trust Issues

    TRUST is the secret sauce of all relationships. Without it, any kind of meaningful relationship is impossible. And yet most of us have been hurt, perhaps badly hurt, and those scars can make it extremely difficult to trust again. We know that carrying this kind of baggage will sabotage our love...

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  4. Why Intimacy is Better Without Compatibility

    Why Intimacy is Better Without Compatibility

    In a famous Seinfeld episode, Jerry dates someone just like himself. In the beginning he’s ecstatic because they have everything in common, but in the end, it starts driving him crazy because, as he says, “I hate myself!” That hilarious scene challenges the assumption that having things in common with...

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  5. Compatibility: What’s Important and What’s Not

    Compatibility: What’s Important and What’s Not

    My wife and I have virtually nothing in common and yet we are perfectly compatible. How can that be? Well, it’s because compatibility is, perhaps, the single most misunderstood relationship principle in the world today. People routinely seek to be compatible in ways that don’t matter, while they ignore being...

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  6. What you can learn from a Narcissist

    What you can learn from a Narcissist

    Hardly a day goes by that I don’t see a post on Facebook, or some other social media platform, detailing someone’s experience with a narcissist. They write about how self-absorbed a narcissist is, how selfish and egocentric they are, how controlling they are…on and on it goes. Without diminishing the...

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  7. Why these 6 “F-Words” will sabotage your love life and keep you single

    Why these 6 “F-Words” will sabotage your love life and keep you single

    As a relationship coach, I find that all the approaches people use to find their life partner fall into two major categories. There are conventional approaches and there’s the conscious approach. I describe the conventional approaches to attracting lasting love with 6 F-Words. They’re “bad” words, mostly because they don’t...

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  8. The Masculine and Feminine Dance

    The Masculine and Feminine Dance

    A beautiful snapshot of Masculine and Feminine energies from my home this Saturday morning… (Before I share this story, know that this is a post from my Facebook page (Roy Biancalana—Relationshipcoach) on masculine/feminine dynamics and the response from one of my “friends.” It sheds light on the dance between two...

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