The Relationship Fitness Self Test THE RELATIONSHIP FITNESS TEST (This test takes 3 minutes and your answers will never be shared with anyone.) There are 30 true/false questions in this self-test. They are designed to assess your "relationship fitness level," which is the key to attracting, creating or maintaining a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. Once you answer the questions and then enter your email address, your results will be sent to your inbox immediately (make sure firstname.lastname@example.org is in your contacts). Your results email will tell you three things: First, it will tell you your relationship fitness level ("Ripped," "Skinny Fat," "Overweight," "Unhealthy," or "Dangerously Out of Shape). Second, it will explain what your fitness level means, and third, it will give you recommendations as to how to get in better relationship shape (if needed). Lastly, this is a very accurate test, but only if you answer the questions honestly. Don’t try to get a high score by giving what you believe are the “right” answers. Be brutally honest with yourself and know that both your answers and your results are completely confidential. Click "NEXT" to begin! I’m single because I just haven’t met the right person yet. True FalseI have a list (or vision board) that describes the qualities I want in a partner. True FalseWhen I feel down, stressed or lonely, I try to stay busy, vent to a friend, watch TV or do something to take my mind off those feelings. True FalseI have been hurt before, so I admit that I might have some “trust issues.” True FalseI’m not great at setting boundaries, asking for what I want, or saying “no.” True FalseWhile I’m certainly not perfect, most of the problems in my past relationships were caused by my partners and their issues. True FalseBecause I don’t have a partner, I sometimes feel lonely and disconnected. True FalseI don’t like being single. I want to figure out what the problem is and fix it. True FalseI believe in the “law of attraction” and I want to use it to attract my life partner. True FalseI sometimes turn to “comfort foods” or alcohol when I’m upset, sad or feeling anxious. True FalseWords like “vulnerability,” “surrender” and “trust” are really scary things for me. True FalseI tend not share my true feelings or opinions, especially early in a relationship, because I might be misunderstood, judged or even rejected. True FalseMeeting each other’s emotional needs is the purpose and beauty of an intimaterelationship. True FalseI sometimes worry that I might never meet someone special and that I will grow oldalone. True FalseWhen it comes to relationships, trusting yourself—your thoughts, gut instincts and feelings—is the wise thing to do. True FalseMy emotions have a long shelf-life. If I’m really upset about something, it can last for days. True FalseI believe that trust has to be earned and it’s based on the other person’s behavior and character. True FalseOn a first date, if I’m unsure of my feelings or if I’m confused or concerned about something, I tend to keep it to myself and give the relationship a chance. True FalseUnselfishness is the key to a loving, lasting relationship. You need to be willing to sacrifice and compromise. True FalseI am on two or more online dating sites. True FalseTotal honesty and complete transparency are good theories, but in the real world, you need to keep some things to yourself in order to avoid conflict and get along with others. True FalseI have continued to date people that I knew weren’t “the one.” True FalseOne of my biggest questions is where to go to meet someone special. True FalseFinding a person with whom I feel both chemistry and compatibility is like trying to find a needle in a haystack True FalseBecause my heart has been broken, I pay attention to what people say and do in order to protect myself from being hurt again. True FalseThe love of a wonderful partner would go a long way in ending my feeling unlovable or not good enough. True FalseI try not to express anger, especially early in a relationship. I’m afraid it might give someone the wrong impression or even scare them off. True FalseI seem to get put in the “friend zone” way too often. True FalseAn important skill in relationships is learning how to say what’s on your mind without hurting someone’s feelings or upsetting them. True FalseTo be honest, my self-esteem isn’t very high. I could certainly use to learn how to love myself more. True False Name Email Time is Up!