You’ve probably had first hand experience with an angry person. I don’t think you’d be reading this if you haven’t. Perhaps you’ve been physically or verbally abused by an angry person, or perhaps you work for an angry, abusive boss, or perhaps you’re the one with the anger issues. No...
Most people believe that the Law of Attraction is the key to finding a life partner. However, with more than a decade of experience as a relationship coach, I believe the Law of Attraction will actually ruin your love life and sabotage your ability to experience deep emotional intimacy. I...
If heart disease is the #1 killer of humans, then the scarcity mindset is the #1 killer of single people. No other belief can cause as much damage as the scarcity mentality can. A scarcity mentality will squeeze the life out you and it will keep you single—and I rarely meet...
Basic Trust is the foundational principle for inner peace, healthy relationships, but most of all, it’s the foundation of emotional stability. It is literally the “holy grail” of happiness. Basic Trust is the real “chicken soup of the soul,” the key to overcoming loneliness, worry, anxiety, depression and just about...
TRUST is the secret sauce of all relationships. Without it, any kind of meaningful relationship is impossible. And yet most of us have been hurt, perhaps badly hurt, and those scars can make it extremely difficult to trust again. We know that carrying this kind of baggage will sabotage our love...
In a famous Seinfeld episode, Jerry dates someone just like himself. In the beginning he’s ecstatic because they have everything in common, but in the end, it starts driving him crazy because, as he says, “I hate myself!” That hilarious scene challenges the assumption that having things in common with...
My wife and I have virtually nothing in common and yet we are perfectly compatible. How can that be? Well, it’s because compatibility is, perhaps, the single most misunderstood relationship principle in the world today. People routinely seek to be compatible in ways that don’t matter, while they ignore being...
Everyone plays games. I know that’s not what you want to hear, but it’s true. In the dating world, everybody is playing a game, including you. I don’t mean, however, that everyone is manipulative and inauthentic (though some are) what I mean is that everyone dates with a certain mindset...
Is there a way to know, or even predict, if a relationship will last? In my experience as a relationship coach, there most certainly is. If you are in a new relationship, or trying to decide if the person you’re dating is “the one,” or if you’re hoping to meet...
Do you want to attract lasting love? If so, there is a question you need to ask yourself, a question that is more important than any other. And that question is NOT “who do I want?” or “where should I go to meet someone?” Those are fair questions but they’re...
