If heart disease is the #1 killer of humans, then the scarcity mindset is the #1 killer of single people. No other belief can cause as much damage as the scarcity mentality can. A scarcity mentality will squeeze the life out you and it will keep you single—and I rarely meet...
Do you want to attract lasting love? If so, there is a question you need to ask yourself, a question that is more important than any other. And that question is NOT “who do I want?” or “where should I go to meet someone?” Those are fair questions but they’re...
“Thanks for helping us!” These were the words of a stranger I past twice today on my morning run. She was out walking her dog, and we were coming toward each other. When I was about 30 yards away, she led her dog off the sidewalk and told it to...
Hardly a day goes by that I don’t see a post on Facebook, or some other social media platform, detailing someone’s experience with a narcissist. They write about how self-absorbed a narcissist is, how selfish and egocentric they are, how controlling they are…on and on it goes. Without diminishing the...
Since this is the time of year that we reflect, recalibrate and make resolutions, allow me to share my perspective on the human experience. I’ll keep it as short and sweet as possible, and I’ll use a metaphor too, because describing the spiritual realm is really hard to do. First,...
As a relationship coach, I offer relationship advice and self help wisdom to single people. I notice a lot of anxiety and stress during the holidays when it comes to giving gifts. Our minds swirl with questions like, “Should I give a gift to this or that person, and if...
As a relationship coach, I find that all the approaches people use to find their life partner fall into two major categories. There are conventional approaches and there’s the conscious approach. I describe the conventional approaches to attracting lasting love with 6 F-Words. They’re “bad” words, mostly because they don’t...
This is my first podcast. Woohoo!! In this 29:00 minute episode, I share my story of how I went from drama-filled relationships to one that really works. From that story, I draw 4 conclusions, or 4 principles that you can apply to your life so that you too can attract...
The third time is the charm. Unless you’re living under a rock, you know that Kim Kardashian and Kanye West playfully nicknamed, Kimye, are getting married. It will be her third marriage and it appears to be his third significant relationship as well. Beyond all the pomp and paparazzi, the...
I’m treading on holy ground when I take Gary Chapman’s much beloved, best selling book, The Five Love Languages to task, but I ask you to hear me out. I believe it’s a book with a dangerous premise at its core. If we don’t examine this book’s underlying premise, it...
