Intimate Relationships and the Living Inquiries
Intimate relationships have a special ability to trigger deep stories of being inadequate, unlovable, unattractive or not good enough. Whether
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The Case for Speed Dating
As a relationship coach, I have no problem with Internet dating. I did it when I was single, and while
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A Little Diddy About Jack and Diane
Remember that song by John Mellencamp that began, “A little diddy about Jack and Diane…”? Well, here’s a little diddy
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Why We Self-Sabotage
One of the most bizarre aspects of being human is our tendency toward self-sabotage. I see it in my life
Read moreAre We There Yet? Why seeking enlightenment is a dead-end road
Are you a spiritual seeker? Are you on “the path?” Do you want to be awakened, evolved, enlightened? By the
Read moreReflections on Dis-Ease
Stress, worry, angst, dread, fatigue, agitation, fear, anxiety, frustration, pressure. Have you noticed how often the inner landscape of our
Read moreLiving Inquiry: A Simple Path to Being at Ease in the World
Before I describe the Living Inquires, let me tell you who will be most interested in them. You will definitely
Read moreThe Spirituality of Being Pissed-Off
Anger gets a bad rap. If all human emotions could be thought of as a family, then for most people,
Read moreVows for Newlyweds, Old-lyweds and No-lyweds
We are all familiar with traditional wedding vows. Historically, the person who is officiating the ceremony recites something like this
Read moreThe Core of Relationship Difficulty
Our way of being in the world, the way we present ourselves, our public persona if you will, is formed
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