The Cheating Choice-Point
There is a choice-point moment in every relationship where you know you’re not happy with the current dynamic between you
Read moreJodi Arias, Carrie Underwood and Relationship Triggers
I’m going to ask you to do something that is nearly impossible: Set aside the horrific, murderous actions that Jodi
Read moreWhat’s Your Relationship IQ?
Do you know your IQ? The number basically represents a person’s level of intelligence, their ability to reason. It can
Read moreCoaching Structure
Everything you ever wanted to know about working with Roy I am the world’s biggest fan of coaching because it
Read moreIs Your Partner a Pain in the Ass? Good!
The last thing I want from my wife is for her to accept me for who I am. Come to
Read moreIntimate Relationships and the Living Inquiries
Intimate relationships have a special ability to trigger deep stories of being inadequate, unlovable, unattractive or not good enough. Whether
Read moreThe Case for Speed Dating
As a relationship coach, I have no problem with Internet dating. I did it when I was single, and while
Read moreA Little Diddy About Jack and Diane
Remember that song by John Mellencamp that began, “A little diddy about Jack and Diane…”? Well, here’s a little diddy
Read moreWhy We Self-Sabotage
One of the most bizarre aspects of being human is our tendency toward self-sabotage. I see it in my life
Read moreAre We There Yet? Why seeking enlightenment is a dead-end road
Are you a spiritual seeker? Are you on “the path?” Do you want to be awakened, evolved, enlightened? By the
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