Straight Talk on Finding The One
I describe a great intimate relationship like this: Chemistry + Compatibility = “The One”. In other words, our soulmate would be someone we’re both attracted to and aligned with. Simple enough, right? Well, not really. While chemical attraction is easy to discern, it can also be so overwhelming that it blinds us to the compatibility [...]
Enlightenment for Dummies: 3 Simple Questions to Set You Free
I’m a dummy. I’m not ashamed to admit it. I don’t like things that are complex and complicated. “K.I.S.S.” is my motto: Keep It Simple Stupid. Whatever I’ve been interested in, whether it’s getting my book published, raising a well-adjusted son, playing better golf or even growing spiritually, I want a roadmap that is easy [...]
It’s Never Too Late to Find Love
One of the wonderful benefits of getting older is the wisdom and insight gained from a life lived with a spirit of curiosity and reflection. Jane Fonda is a beautiful example of this. In the August 2011 issue of Oprah Winfrey’s magazine, O, Ms. Fonda, who is 73 years old, talks candidly about her love [...]
The Most Important (and overlooked!) Qualities in a Life Partner
If the three qualities I am going to describe in this article are not true in your life and in the life of the person you want to be with, your love life is doomed. I guarantee it. Am I exaggerating just to get your attention? No, I most definitely am not.
If you are still [...]
The Third Wave of the Sexual Revolution
Over the last 50 years or so, our collective understanding of human sexuality has gone through two revolutionary shifts. It’s time for a third.
Any revolution, whether it’s political, economic, cultural, or sexual, comes about because of intense pain and suffering. Circumstances become intolerable, a crisis point is reached and a revolution takes place. There are [...]
What to do when You’re an Emotional Wreck
By Roy Biancalana
Author and Relationship Coach
www.coachingwithroy.com
Unless you are a robot created in a laboratory you have probably experienced times of intense emotions and feelings. Though some of us (especially men) mask it well, all of us are emotional creatures. It’s part of being human. In fact, if we’re going to be honest, it’s not uncommon [...]
Praise for Roy’s Book: A Drink with Legs
It’s rare for me to find a book that is both highly entertaining as well as insightful. Roy has brilliantly and courageously revealed his journey as a relationship addict and offers his wisdom to those who share this addiction. His advice may not always be what you want to hear, but in my [...]
The Tree of Life
When I first begin working with a client on their love life (or lack thereof), it’s not unusual to find them experiencing a great deal of uncomfortable emotions in their bodies. They might be feeling grief, anxiety, confusion, frustration or loneliness, to mention only a few. But no matter what they’re feeling, the bottom line [...]
Givers, Takers and Other Kinds of Lovers
Givers, Takers and Other Kinds of Lovers
Roy Biancalana
Relationship Coach and Author
www.coachingwithroy.com
407-687-3387
The Law of Attraction is all the rage these days. Millions of people are using vision boards and the like to start new businesses, find better jobs, own their dream homes or succeed at some endeavor. And people are experiencing incredible results. People are also [...]
The Spiritual Wisdom of Forrest Gump
The Spiritual Wisdom of Forrest Gump
Roy Biancalana
www.coachingwithroy.com
Move over Buddha, Jesus of Nazareth, Ramana Maharshi and Eckhart Tolle. There’s a new spiritual sheriff in town and his name is Forrest Gump.
Recently, as I was watching that wonderful movie, for what had to be about the tenth time, I was dumbfounded by the deep and profound spiritual [...]